Violet winning an award for her porn film work. And, actually, I only show my nipples on Twitter while people like the Kardashians are going full frontal." People giving each other pleasure is still seen as a taboo, which is ridiculous. "People who enjoy BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism) are perfectly normal. "I don't get too many young chaps as they think I'm going to kill them and throw them in the waste," she giggled, slightly unnervingly. I'll treat you well if you do what I say, but if you're naughty then you're going to pay. "Not yet, but I've spanked a few naughty boys. Say you're a judge and in charge of everybody, then you might feel the need to have someone else in charge of you and it could be that you want to be an adult baby." "A lot of their fetishes hark back to childhood while a lot of it comes through their jobs. Most of them are older men who have been through divorce or their partners have died, or they might have a severe illness and this is on their bucket list. The majority are from Cornwall but they visit from London and Bath too. "I have four or five regular slaves and other, more sporadic slaves. My slaves find it very therapeutic and I feel relaxed after dominating someone – it gets my aggressive emotions out. Some people have quite heavy problems in their lives and need comfort and to be taken out of their daily situation. "I can be very sensual, giving them lots of cuddles. She often uses the word "empowering" to describe what she does. It's clear from talking to Violet that she sees her dominatrix work as providing a service – one that is as emotional as it is sexual. If you've got a gag in your mouth and can't speak then I give you something heavy to hold that you can drop to let me know you're feeling uncomfortable." "Well, It's not a word that would be involved in anything I'm doing at the time, so it's pretty clear that when they say 'cabbage' I stop. "It's cabbage." I must admit that, sat among the elderly diners in Andy's Café, it all seemed a bit incongruous and I burst out laughing. What is Violet's? Red, danger or a simple 'stop mistress'? That is obviously a time when the well-known use of a safe word must come into play. If the slave did it themselves they could die so the dominatrix looks after them." "Using amyl nitrate and laughing gas – you've got to be so careful, it's not stuff to be taken lightly. "It can go from cuddling to bondage, being suspended or pinned down, right up to caning, electrical stimulation, needle play and breath play."īeing a man of the world, I thought I was aware of all sexual fetishes, but breath play? So, for the uninitiated, what does domination entail? "Fetish is more about what you don't see while porn is seeing everything in technicolour, pure HD and widescreen." "Domination isn't escorting – it's legal, which is a good foothold for my mum and dad," she laughed. I like my medical implements and tools … as you will see. She told me: "I first tied someone up when I was 18 – it hit me, this is it, my sexual orientation. Violet Storm in conversation with Cornwall Live's Lee Trewhela. I knew I didn't want to end up a Padstow wife with loads of children."Īnd so it was that she moved into modelling, then the fetish scene, followed by a few years as a porn star before picking up the cane. "My sister and I used to walk around, dressed as goths, singing Ghost Town. Violet, aka Louise Retallick, 44, describes herself as an "old school Padstow girl", though one who knew she wasn't destined for life in the town. It's fair to say Violet was slightly reticent to talk to me as she was previously "burned" after appearing in a BBC2 documentary about the porn industry, Easy Money – "it wasn't easy money after all," she says. I met her in Newquay, where she has been based for the past five years, to discuss her work as a fetish mistress dominating slaves in Cornwall a job not normally associated with the beaches and rolling countryside of the clotted cream and pasties county. A former porn star from Padstow, Violet is now working as a dominatrix and web cam performer. It's not every day you sit in a Newquay café and your fellow diner produces a 12" strap-on dildo and rubber mask from her handbag as you sip your tea.īut then Violet Storm isn't your typical Cornish woman.
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